our feelings aren't mutual vs the feelings aren't mutual

Both phrases are correct, but they are used in different contexts. 'Our feelings aren't mutual' is used when referring to feelings shared between two specific people, while 'The feelings aren't mutual' is more general and can refer to feelings in a broader context.

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our feelings aren't mutual

This phrase is correct and commonly used when referring to feelings shared between two specific people.

This phrase is used to express that the feelings one person has for another are not reciprocated by the other person.

Examples:

I have feelings for him, but unfortunately, our feelings aren't mutual.
It's clear that our feelings aren't mutual, and it's time to move on.

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But the minute I shook his hand, I knew the feeling wasn't mutual.
But the feeling wasn't mutual.
Our mutual feelings are just a bit too drastic.
Ray Brauer, but the feelings just weren't mutual.
Whatever I may have thought there was between me and Skye, she made it pretty clear the feeling wasn't mutual.
Say, although the feelings are mutual, we considered the influence it'll have on the international politics, so we decided to break up.
The feeling is mutual, mostly.
I wish the feeling were mutual.
Well, the feeling's mutual.
The feeling's mutual, cupcake.
The feeling is mutual, Counsellor.
I'm pretty sure the feeling was mutual.
Well, the feeling's mutual.
And I suspect the feeling is mutual.
And the feeling's mutual too.
Feeling's mutual, love, I promise.
Looked like the feeling was mutual.
The feeling is mutual, Sir.
And I wouldn't be surprised if the feeling was mutual.
Trus m me, the feeling is mutual.

Alternatives:

My feelings for him are not reciprocated.
We don't share the same feelings.
He doesn't feel the same way about me.
Our emotions are not aligned.
There is a lack of mutual feelings between us.

the feelings aren't mutual

This phrase is correct and can be used in a more general context when referring to feelings that are not reciprocated.

This phrase is used to indicate that there is a lack of mutual feelings or agreement in a broader sense, not necessarily between specific individuals.

Examples:

In this situation, the feelings aren't mutual, and we need to find a compromise.
The team members have different opinions, so the feelings aren't mutual on this issue.

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But the minute I shook his hand, I knew the feeling wasn't mutual.
But the feeling wasn't mutual.
Ray Brauer, but the feelings just weren't mutual.
The feeling is mutual, mostly.
Whatever I may have thought there was between me and Skye, she made it pretty clear the feeling wasn't mutual.
Say, although the feelings are mutual, we considered the influence it'll have on the international politics, so we decided to break up.
I wish the feeling were mutual.
Well, the feeling's mutual.
The feeling's mutual, cupcake.
The feeling is mutual, Counsellor.
I'm pretty sure the feeling was mutual.
Well, the feeling's mutual.
And I suspect the feeling is mutual.
And the feeling's mutual too.
Looked like the feeling was mutual.
The feeling is mutual, Sir.
And I wouldn't be surprised if the feeling was mutual.
Trus m me, the feeling is mutual.
I see the feeling is mutual.
And the feeling's mutual, but you always do.

Alternatives:

There is no mutual agreement on the feelings.
The emotions are not shared by all.
There is a lack of consensus on the feelings.
The sentiments are not reciprocated universally.
Not everyone feels the same way about this.

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our feelings aren't mutual vs the feelings aren't mutual