Tell my ownself vs Tell to myself

Some examples from the web:

• I need time to tell my family.
• Tell my partner where I am.
• I should go tell my mom.
• You can tell my so-called cleaner...
• -Doctor, tell my wife.
• The hardest thing for me was to tell my parents I was gay.
• Tell my lord Saladin that Jerusalem has come.
• I tell my supervisor my concerns.
• Tell my he'll let you.
• Tell my mother no wedding talk at work.
• Tell my family what had happened.
• One day tell my daughter you tell my daughter that Daddy loved her.
• Tell my wife that I loved you.
• I have to tell my father.
• Don't tell my family I'm here.
• Tell my sister I will be back soon.
• But tell my parole board that I'm taking all eight.
• I have to tell my dad what happened.
• Let's go tell my father.
• I have to tell my dad what happened.

Some examples from the web:

• 'I try to tell myself what to dream.
• I try to tell myself what to dream.
• It's like I'm trying to tell myself something.
• Tried to tell myself I'd be okay, pretending it never happened.
• I like to tell myself it's the former.
• I tried to tell myself that was a good sign.
• And I can try to tell myself I kept my promise.
• I tried to tell myself that I buried him alive.
• I tried to tell myself he wasn't serious.
• I managed to tell myself that this was just a situation...
• I don't even know what to tell myself anymore.
• That's what I keep trying to tell myself.
• I really wanted to tell you myself.
• I wanted to tell you myself after I got all the details.
• Save me the hassle of having to tell her myself.
• I have to tell Francis myself and...
• I swear, to tell him myself.
• No, I prefer to tell him myself.
• This is an official communique I requested to tell you myself.
• I'm going to tell him myself.