letting him get to him vs Not letting him get to him

These two phrases are not directly comparable as they convey opposite meanings. 'Letting him get to him' implies allowing someone to affect or influence him, while 'not letting him get to him' means preventing someone from affecting or influencing him. The choice between the two depends on the intended message: allowing influence or preventing it.

Last updated: March 19, 2024 • 744 views

letting him get to him

This phrase is correct and can be used to indicate allowing someone to affect or influence him.

This phrase is used when someone is allowing another person's actions or words to have an impact on him. It implies a lack of resistance to external influence.

Examples:

He's always letting his boss get to him, and it affects his confidence.
Stop letting negative comments get to you.

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Apr 26, 2014 ... This doesn't excuse Nene for letting him get to him, but it must have been a particular button pushed. Time to turn the bulls into steers. Go Wiz!

Alternatives:

allowing him to affect him
permitting him to influence him
allowing him to get under his skin
letting him have an impact on him

Not letting him get to him

This phrase is correct and conveys the idea of preventing someone from affecting or influencing him.

This phrase is used when someone is actively resisting the influence or impact of another person's actions or words. It implies a conscious effort to maintain emotional distance.

Examples:

She's good at not letting criticism get to her.
He's working on not letting his ex's words get to him.

Alternatives:

preventing him from affecting him
resisting his influence
blocking his impact
shielding himself from his influence

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letting him get to him vs Not letting him get to him