I didn't mean to hurt you. vs I didn't mean to upset you.

Both phrases are correct and commonly used in English. They convey a similar message of not intending to cause harm or distress to someone. The choice between 'hurt' and 'upset' depends on the specific situation and the level of emotional impact the speaker wants to convey.

Last updated: April 06, 2024 • 1534 views

This phrase is correct and commonly used in English to express regret for causing physical or emotional pain.

"I didn't mean to hurt you."

This phrase is used when apologizing for unintentionally causing harm, whether physical or emotional, to someone.

Examples:

I didn't mean to hurt your feelings.
I didn't mean to hurt you with my words.
I didn't mean to hurt you when I pushed you accidentally.
I didn't mean to hurt you, it was a mistake.
I didn't mean to hurt you, please forgive me.

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I'm sorry I ate your fries. I didn't mean to hurt you.
"I didn't mean to hurt you." "Whatever."
Look, I didn't mean to hurt you.
But I didn't mean to hurt you.
Danny, I didn't mean to hurt you.
I didn't mean to hurt you.
I didn't mean to hurt you.
I didn't mean to hurt you.
I didn't mean to hurt you.
See, you treated me like a son, and I didn't mean to hurt you.
I'm sorry it came to this, I didn't mean to hurt you.
Okay. You have to know, I didn't mean to hurt you.
I know it seems like I did this on purpose because things aren't resolved between us. I didn't mean to hurt you.
Look, I didn't mean to hurt you. I just did what I had to do.
I'm sorry. I didn't mean to hurt you.
Okay. You have to know, I didn't mean to hurt you.
I didn't mean to hurt you.
I'm so sorry! I didn't mean to hurt you.
I didn't mean to hurt you.
I didn't mean to hurt you.

Alternatives:

I didn't mean to harm you.
I didn't mean to injure you.
I didn't mean to cause you pain.
I didn't mean to cause you distress.
I didn't mean to cause you discomfort.

This phrase is correct and commonly used in English to express regret for causing emotional distress or disturbance.

"I didn't mean to upset you."

This phrase is used when apologizing for unintentionally causing emotional discomfort or distress to someone.

Examples:

I didn't mean to upset you with my comments.
I didn't mean to upset you by canceling our plans.
I didn't mean to upset you with my behavior.
I didn't mean to upset you, I was just trying to help.
I didn't mean to upset you, please accept my apology.

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I'm sorry. I didn't mean to upset you.
I didn't mean to upset you.
I didn't mean to upset you.
I didn't mean to upset you.
I didn't mean to upset you.
I didn't mean to upset you.
No, I didn't mean to upset you. I just thought you might want some closure.
I didn't mean to upset you.
It was only meant to be a bit of fun, I didn't mean to upset you.
I... I didn't mean to upset you.
Well, I'm sorry. I didn't mean to upset you.
I'm sure I didn't mean to upset you. I know.
I didn't mean to upset you.
Okay. I... I didn't mean to upset you.
I didn't mean to upset you.
I didn't mean to upset you.
I didn't mean to upset you.
I didn't mean to upset you.
I didn't mean to upset you.
OK? I didn't mean to upset you.

Alternatives:

I didn't mean to distress you.
I didn't mean to bother you.
I didn't mean to trouble you.
I didn't mean to disturb you.
I didn't mean to agitate you.

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