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"Are you upset with me?" vs "Are you upset at me?"

"Are you upset with me?" is a way to ask if someone is not pleased with your actions.

Last Updated: March 20, 2019

Are you upset with me?

This is correct

"Are you upset with me?" is one way to ask if someone is mad at you.

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Some examples from our editors:

  • You haven't texted me back. Are you upset with me?
  • Are you upset with me because I got home really late?
  • It sounds like you're frustrated. Are you upset with me?

Some alternatives from our editors:

  • Are you mad at me?
  • Are you frustrated with me?

Are you upset at me?

This is not correct. Don't use this phrase.

"Are you upset with me?" is standard phrasing of that question in English.

An alternative is "Are you mad at me?"

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Some alternatives from our editors:

  • Are you upset with me?
  • Are you mad at me?

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