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Are you upset at me? vs Are you upset with me?

"Are you upset with me?" is a way to ask if someone is not pleased with your actions.
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Last updated: March 20, 2019 • 184988 views

Are you upset at me?

This phrase is not correct. Don't use it.

"Are you upset with me?" is standard phrasing of that question in English.

An alternative is "Are you mad at me?"
  • Quote Originally Posted by coffeebeans4 View Post. "Are you upset at me? I am not sure whether you were upset about my friends comment.
  • Forum discussions with the word(s) 'upset' in the title: Discussioni nei forum nel cui titolo è presente la parola 'upset': Are you upset at me? He was upset with ...
  • Aug 4, 2014 ...Are you upset at me?” she wondered. “Of course not,” he replied. “Then why are you crying?” This father had not even realized that there were ...
  • Dec 19, 2014 ... Why are you upset at me about this case when I didn't bring it up. You're the one that is angry about it remember? I didn't know who the guy ...

Some alternatives from our editors:

  • Are you upset with me?
  • Are you mad at me?

Are you upset with me?

This phrase is correct.

"Are you upset with me?" is one way to ask if someone is mad at you.

Some examples from our editors:

  • You haven't texted me back. Are you upset with me?
  • Are you upset with me because I got home really late?
  • It sounds like you're frustrated. Are you upset with me?
  • or "Are you upset with me?" or "Did I do something wrong?" Be mindful of your tone of voice, as you don't want to be perceived as threatening or commanding. 6 .
  • For example, if my wife feels I might be acting a little sulky, she might say "Are you upset with me" or "Are you even a little bit upset with me.
  • Grant Stevens: Are You Upset with Me? Essays by: Mark Pennings and Chris Kraus. Jointly published with Gallery Barry Keldoulis, Sydney, with support from ...
  • BISTU MIT MIR BROYGES (ARE YOU UPSET WITH ME?) Hassidic Song. Are you upset with me? I don't know why. All day you walk around. With a long face.

Some alternatives from our editors:

  • Are you mad at me?
  • Are you frustrated with me?

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